There are significant moments on a person's life that just make one scratch their head. I wish my moments were more like that... scratching head moments, you know? My moments are more like... dismay. They are larger than scratch your head moments... like the Christmas of 2017 when My life was forever altered...again. I still don't know why the girl, my husbands employee, ran away from me twice at the party or why she continued to run away every time she saw me, which was when I volunteered to clean the employee kitchen every Wednesday. 4 more times that summer she ran away from me and had her stooly torment me with her back always turned while I said hello and other pleasantries. No, I don't know why my life was forever altered that Christmas, but I can make a guess.